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Sexual desire is of two categories: Raw sexual desire (also called horniness) and desire in a chosen relationship. Raw sexual desire is innate, biological and is determined by the level of testosterone hormone in blood. This is highest around 17, and stays high up till the age of 24, imperceptibly declining till middle age, thereafter perceptibly. On the other hand, the sexual desire in a relationship depends on the closeness with a partner, and how you are comfortable with a partner. It often happens that the young men who have low desire have normal testosterone levels, but due to interpersonal difficulties they face lower sexual desire. Normally these men respond positively to erotic material and they frequently masturbate when alone, evidence that they have normal hormonal levels. Talk to Us
One may not feel like participating in sexual activity even with normal desire due to some of the reasons like physical tiredness, stress due to any reasons etc. which may be naturally frustrating to anyone. Although the desire is quite adequate, the body and mind may not be adequately prepared to have sex. Resting sufficiently or removal of stress should solve the problem. If not, there could be deeper layers to it. To explore them, Talk to Us
For most men who run a tight schedule in the day and return home with very little energy, desperate to hit the bed, “night sex” is certainly not for them. Morning or any other time when they are charged should help them enjoy sex to the fullest. For most of the couples who get very less time for each other, it not only reduces the frequency of their sex, but the relationship may be at stake and get impaired in the long run. This is the sign of predisposition to the unsuccessful marriage and family. For more information Talk to Us
Any normal male experiences difficulties with erection at least once in his lifetime. Often this is known to be connected with dysfunctional purpose of sex like “trying” to have sex to please the partner, for social or others acceptance and validation, for the demands of impregnation and lacking intimacy between the partners. It often occurs when the man loses his meaning in sex and chooses to act for others.
Sometimes it can also be because of unfavorable situations, difficulty in relationship, changed preferences, apprehension about causing pain to the partner and distractions rather than due to a physical cause. If you have had one erection lasting for about five minutes during the past 3 months, consider yourself as physically in a good state and you can get it back. If you’re still concerned about difficulties with your erection,For more information Talk to Us.
For some, the foreskin may not be retractable at all and yet can involve in sexual intercourse. Whereas in a few, the foreskin may be half retractable. This may be painful during sexual intercourse. The accompanying anxiety adds to the problem in most of the cases. So, if you are experiencing such a problem, you can begin to retract it in the ‘non erect state’ and continue with the erect state which may be helpful. If you find any difficulty, we can help you. For more information Talk to Us
If you were able to retract your foreskin earlier and not now, it is understandable that any attempts to sexual intercourse may be painful. This may be quite frustrating to you. Such a problem could be a sign of ongoing infection on the head of the penis especially when any cuts/cracks are seen over the foreskin. These are common in diabetics, so diabetes control is required along with treating the problem. For more information Talk to Us
It can be painful to feel rejected or sexually distanced by your partner. There could be many reasons to this from relationship issues, differences in the level of sexual desires, unfavorable situations, partner’s earlier trauma, ongoing, unidentified psychological issues to changed priorities etc. To explore more about this and get help, Talk to Us
Being attracted to same and/or another gender is ABSOLUTELY NORMAL. Yet you may feel not understood, forced by society/family members to follow conventional marriage, scared or embarrassed that others may come to know about your sexual preferences/choices, scared of social/family rejection and shaming. If you’re married, you may not feel sexually attracted to your spouse and may struggle to consummate or impregnate the partner. You may also have a desire to change your preferences. If you’re struggling with these issues, Talk to Us
Ejaculating too early for a beginner, with a new partner or in the episodes of infrequent sex is quite common. This problem should disappear after a month of regular sex with the same partner in a safe environment. Most of the times having improper idea about sex and satisfaction in the relationship can bring great anxiety associated with fast ejaculation.
This condition known as premature ejaculation disappears naturally. If it still persists, Talk to Us
If you have ejaculated once under any sexual excitement, that means you are normal. Ejaculation of semen occurs at the peak of one’s sexual stimulation. Any distraction which comes in the way of reaching the peak results in delayed ejaculation or Anejaculation (No ejaculation). There could be psychological/Emotional reasons (Less likely to be the effect of drug or a physical condition that you are going through) that may inhibit you from reaching the climax during sex. For more information Talk to Us
In a younger age, Re-erection is quick and more likely to happen because of high sex hormone level in the blood. As one ages, the hormone level comes down and so the Re-erection capacity. What concerns you more about not being able to develop another erection sooner is worthwhile to be addressed. For more information Talk to Us
The pain associated with ejaculation is usually caused by infection in the path of semen flow. A good history of sexual exposure or associated UTI will help to diagnose and treat the problem accordingly. Apart from pathological reasons, some men experience naturally slightly uncomfortable sensation in their testicles/ groin during/after ejaculation without the evidence of any physical problems. This is quite normal as long as the pain is tolerable; not coming in the way of you enjoying sex and when there is no evidence for a medical condition. For more information Talk to Us
Sexual abuse/Molestation is forcing undesired sexual behavior by one person upon the other. It includes any form of sexual abuse on the other spouse (Spousal)/ other person; Child sex abuse includes engaging in indecent/ age-inappropriate exposure of sexually arousing organs to the child, displaying pornography to a child, asking/pressuring a child to engage in sexual activities for one’s own sexual gratification.
1 in 5 girls and 1 in 20 boys are a victim of child sex abuse, yet most of the cases go unnoticed. Most sexual offenders are acquainted with their victims; Abuse of people with developmental disabilities is common due to lack of understanding and comprehension. Sexual abuse is a very serious concern! The effect it creates on the victim includes shame, self-blame, depression, anxiety, PTSD, self-esteem issues, fractured sense of self, sexual dysfunction, suicidal ideation, addiction, personality disorders and self-harming tendencies apart from physical pain, wounds and infection. It attacks the very core self and fragments it which is potential enough to pervasively disturb the relationship with others especially the romantic relationship. This needs to be gently handled by a trained therapist with adequate amount of empathy and support. If you think you have had such a disturbing experience of sexual abuse, Please feel free to talk to us. We are here to understand you, support you and help you. For more information Talk to Us
A big yes! Tobacco and alcohol decrease the blood supply to the penile structures whereas it actually requires a large amount of blood during arousal and erection. It is worth choosing between Smoking/drinking and healthy sex life. For more information Talk to Us
Post-intercourse with person who is exposed to other partner/s, it is natural to have the apprehension of contracting any Sexually Transmitted Disease including HIV infection as there is always a risk of contracting infection even with protection. This apprehension may cause a temporary loss of desire or erection. STI/HIV phobia is very commonly experienced following a rare sexual exposure (with non-committed partners) that needs urgent attention, proper understanding of the possibility of risk and addressal of the underlying anxiety with counseling. To rule out the possibility of any infection and/or to get support even after the ‘non-reactive’ test results, For more information Talk to Us
Most people have worries about unwanted pregnancy at least once at some point in their lives. Most of which are unfounded. It is a very difficult situation to be in. It takes away all the peace of mind especially if you are unmarried and surrounded by a great taboo attached to it. For your queries, and to get clarity of the situation, For more information Talk to Us
Most of the men feel this way especially in the early years of sexual activity when they fall prey to the common myths, misconceptions and misbeliefs prevalent in the society. Semen can never exhaust in one’s body in one’s lifetime like tears in eyes or saliva in mouth. Masturbation has no role to play in deciding the size of the penis. Many men and few women misconceive and falsely attribute their physical complaints to having masturbated.
If it still bothers you, it is definitely worth talking to us.
Most of the times, the more you think about giving up masturbation, the more you end up doing it. Yet, there are ways to help you handle the desire that you feel are coming in the way of your other activities. Many times a sense of incompleteness, loneliness, anxiety, depression and pain push one to masturbate as a survival mechanism. For more information Talk to Us
It is very natural to experience ejaculation after one attains Puberty. Following an arousal, if one doesn’t involve in any sexual activity/masturbation, he is likely to pass the semen during sleep. For more information Talk to Us
These worries related to one’s genital are quite common. The good news is that the size of the penis/ slight curvature / penis pointing to the left or right doesn’t affect one’s sexual functioning. You may require some education about it. For more information Talk to Us
The pain which persists even after ruling out any diseases in investigations may be due to the pressure created by the semen which is produced and accumulated inside but not ejaculated. A few causes of the pain in the testis cannot be detected by any investigations. If not, they could be due to faulty standing or sitting postures and others. For more information Talk to Us
This can be tricky to understand. Get in touch to explore more about the pain. For more information Talk to Us
As age progresses, the blood supply to the genitals decrease causing some amount of reduction in the rigidity of erections. A good sex life is beyond just intercourse. It is found that couples who have greater intimacy, connection and touch are more satisfied and a lot happier in their marriages than those who have regular intercourse. Those who have an expansive idea about sex are more likely to be having an enjoyable sexual connection with their partner beyond penetrative sex. For more information Talk to Us
Experiencing early ejaculation especially after you have had some years of good sex life may be the early indication of the onset of organic erection problem. This condition is more common with Prolonged & uncontrolled blood sugar level, hypertension, overweight, increased lipid levels and stressful life. Most of the times it is the sedentary lifestyle and diet that brings in changes in the health of your erections. Controlling these factors may improve the blood flow to the penis. To investigate and manage the problem, contact us.
It is a pitiful situation wherein one partner does not participate in sex as the other desires. The truth is that as we constantly evolve in our lives, our sexual desires, preferences and behavior also does. Sticking to a stereotyped way of enjoying sex may become limitation to achieving satisfaction and sometimes may affect the relationship negatively. Post menopause, women experiencing painful intercourse due to dry vagina is a commonly encountered problem. The desire may also reduce with it however newer and different ways of sexual connection will help couples many times. Reorienting one into non-penetrative sexual activities may help her to show more interest than before. If any of these do not work, visit us preferably with your partner. For more information Talk to Us
A thought of pregnancy before wedding can be a nightmare especially in a society like ours! The anxiety and fear associated with it is pretty much understandable. The best way to deal with such a challenging situation could be to discuss with an expert. Conventionally, it is best recommended to wait till your next period due date. If you don’t observe your periods then, you may take home a urine pregnancy test. For faster resolution, doubts or more information, meet us to discuss. For more information Talk to Us
Unknowingly many of us are a part of misconceptions and misbeliefs that are widely prevalent in our society. It could be about the size and appearance of the genitals, beliefs about masturbation, night fall, semen, foreskin, etc. in relation to one’s ability to enjoy sex with a partner. In fact some of the most important elements needed to enjoy great sex are good knowledge about your sexual anatomy and physiology, a sense of well beingness and a good relationship with your sexual partner. Many times in our clinical practice, we see that many myths and misbeliefs are more deep rooted than they appear and are off shoots of deeper emotional/psychological states like how one perceives himself/herself. Problems surrounding these are very commonly seen. For more information Talk to Us.
Feeling embarrassed and ‘inadequate’ in the light of insignificantly developed secondary sexual characteristics in comparison with peers is understandable. It is natural to see a few men with less hair on the face even though all the other secondary sexual characters are well developed. Such men are sexually quite able to enjoy sex as much as others do. To discuss more about the concern, meet us.
It may be frustrating or sad for the couple to be a part of this situation. There may be simple situational reasons to complex psychological/emotional reasons to it. To explore your situation, visit us with your partner. Call us for an appointment.
The production, quantity, consistency and forcefulness of expulsion of semen vary with age naturally. But nonetheless one need not be concerned about all these in connection fertility, as technically a drop of semen is sufficient to cause pregnancy. If doubt persists, call us .
Visit us to evaluate the problem and get help.
This is quite a dissatisfying/disturbing situation to either or both the partners. The differences in the sexual desires between the partners is quite common but there is a lot to understand about it and also about the ways to manage it. We can bring greater understanding with a discussion. Take an appointment.
